From TTC to Birth: How Birth Doulas Walk with Families Through Every Chapter
- Eva Monhaut-Jenkins
- Jun 23
- 3 min read

Trying to conceive (TTC) is often painted as a hopeful, exciting chapter. But for many, it can also be marked by isolation, grief, and deep uncertainty. As birth doulas, we often enter the picture once someone is already pregnant—but the truth is, our support can begin long before those two pink lines ever appear.
Birth doulas don’t just show up at your labor—we hold space for the complexity of your entire reproductive journey. From navigating infertility and early pregnancy loss to the emotional weight of fertility treatments, our care is rooted in compassion, information, and unwavering presence.
The Overlooked Emotional Labor of TTC
June in Infertility Awareness Month, focusing on something which is often overlooked. Infertility affects 1 in 5 married women aged 15 to 49, according to the CDC. But statistics don’t capture the emotional cost: the monthly rollercoaster of hope and heartbreak, the invasive tests, the financial burden of treatments, and the aching silence of feeling left behind.
Birth doulas aren’t medical providers—we don’t replace fertility specialists—but we do offer something just as vital: nonjudgmental, trauma-informed emotional support. For many trying to conceive, having someone who gets it, who listens without rushing to fix, and who holds your story with tenderness can be transformative.
Whether it's helping you advocate for yourself in a fertility clinic, supporting you after a loss, or just being there to say, "You’re not broken, and you’re not alone," this kind of care matters deeply.
The Doula Difference: Emotional Support Meets Practical Advocacy
Research shows that continuous support from a doula during labor leads to better outcomes: shorter labors, fewer interventions, and higher satisfaction with the birth experience (Bohren et al., 2017). But what many don’t realize is that doulas bring those same strengths—calm presence, evidence-based education, advocacy—to every step of the reproductive journey.
When you're in the TTC stage, a birth doula can support you by:
Helping you process options and make informed decisions around fertility testing, IUI, IVF, or surrogacy.
Providing referrals to holistic or medical fertility support, including reproductive endocrinologists, acupuncturists, and mental health providers.
Holding space for grief after a miscarriage, chemical pregnancy, or failed cycle without minimizing or rushing your healing.
Affirming your worth and choices, no matter what path to parenthood you’re on.
And if pregnancy does follow? That support continues seamlessly through prenatal visits, birth prep, labor, and into the postpartum period. There's no handoff—just continuity, presence, and someone who already knows your story and walks with you every step.

Birth Doulas Honor Every Path to Parenthood
At Luna Natal Doula Care, I believe every family deserves compassionate, customized support—whether they conceive easily, walk the long road of infertility, experience loss, or build their family through surrogacy or adoption.
Infertility Awareness Month is a time to honor the many versions of family-building. It’s a time to widen the lens of birth work—to recognize that supporting birth means supporting all the chapters: the grief, the waiting, the fear, the hope.
If you’re in the trenches of TTC or navigating infertility and don’t know who to talk to—reach out. You don’t have to walk this alone.
Let’s rewrite what support looks like—starting before the first trimester ever begins.
Ready to feel supported from TTC to birth?
If you're in the Michiana area and want a doula who honors the whole you—not just your birth plan—I'd love to meet you. You are worthy of support—at every stage.
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