The Most Overlooked Birth Tool? Your Nervous System and Michiana Doula Support
- Eva Monhaut-Jenkins
- Jul 28
- 3 min read
That's right! The nervous system is a tool you can use during birth. In fact, it is probably the most POWERFUL tool in your toolbox when it comes to birth. When people think of birth prep, they often focus on external tools: birth balls, essential oils, playlists, and hospital bags. But your nervous system plays a bigger role.
Understanding how your nervous system functions during labor can make a profound difference in how you experience birth. As your local Michiana doula supporting you (and your nervous system) is the most important part of my work—whether you’re birthing at home, in a birth center, or in a hospital.
Your Nervous System: The Science Behind Calm and Coping in Labor
At its core, your nervous system governs how your body responds to stress, safety, and pain. During labor, your body instinctively toggles between two states:
Sympathetic nervous system activation (fight, flight, or freeze response)
Parasympathetic nervous system activation (rest, digest, and relax state)
When your body senses stress, fear, or danger, it shifts into sympathetic mode. This can cause your heart rate to spike, muscles to tense, and labor to stall or become more painful. On the flip side, when you feel safe, supported, and calm, your parasympathetic system kicks in—allowing your body to release oxytocin (the hormone that fuels contractions) and endorphins (your body’s natural pain relievers).
Neuroscience research shows that birth is not just a physical event—it’s a neurohormonal event. Your thoughts, emotions, environment, and support system all affect how your nervous system responds during labor.
Why This Matters for Birth
When your nervous system is in a calm, regulated state, several key things happen:
Labor tends to progress more smoothly.
Pain is often perceived as more manageable.
Your body releases more oxytocin, which keeps contractions steady.
Your coping tools—like breathing, movement, and visualization—become more effective.
On the flip side, unaddressed fear or feeling unsafe in your environment can increase cortisol (the stress hormone), interrupt oxytocin flow, and lead to longer, harder labors with more medical interventions.
This isn’t just mindset talk—it’s physiology.
How Michiana Doula Support Helps Regulate Your Nervous System
This is where having Michiana doula support—especially someone local and familiar with Michiana birth environments—can make a world of difference.
Here’s how I help support your nervous system during labor:
1. Creating a Safe and Grounded Birth Space
Whether we’re in your home or a hospital room, I help adjust the environment: dim lights, soft voices, calming scents, and reminders to breathe deeply—all of which cue your brain and body that you are safe.
2. Emotional Reassurance
Continuous presence matters. Studies show that when birthing people have continuous, reassuring support, their perception of safety increases, lowering stress hormones and improving birth outcomes.
3. Physical Comfort Measures
Touch, counter-pressure, rhythmic movement, and other comfort techniques aren’t just soothing—they actually send messages to your brain that help regulate your nervous system in real time.
4. Advocacy and Information
When you feel informed and heard, your body stays more relaxed. Part of my role is to help you understand what’s happening during labor, translate medical language, and remind you of your options—so you feel in control.
This Isn’t About “Natural vs. Epidural”—It’s About Feeling Safe
Supporting your nervous system doesn’t mean you have to avoid pain medication or interventions. Whether you’re planning for an unmedicated birth, want an epidural, or are open to seeing how labor unfolds, nervous system support helps you cope and feel empowered through every stage.
Michiana Doula Support For A Regulated Nervous System: Let's Connect
You can bring the best tools, hire the best providers, and have the best plan—but if your nervous system is overwhelmed or dysregulated, birth can feel harder than it needs to.
That’s why understanding and supporting your nervous system is one of the most overlooked, yet essential, parts of birth prep.
If you’re in the Michiana area and want a doula who understands the emotional, physical, and yes—even the neurological—side of birth, I’d love to connect.
You deserve to feel supported—not just in your body, but in your nervous system too.
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